It is funny, being a parent and raising four kids teaches you a lot of life lessons (imagine that) that can be applied to various situations, both personally and professionally. One of the things I have been working on lately with my children is the notion of continuing to try harder and you will eventually succeed.

I am reminded of a time when I was in kindergarten and the year end play was “The Little Engine that Could”. Back then, it just seemed like a fun story about a little engine that was trying to make it over the mountain top, but could not get any help from any of the passerby trains. So, to his (or maybe her, I am not sure what the “actual sexual orientation of the engine was and I am not even sure that it mattered) delight, he / she continued trying and finally made it over the mountain, hurray! What I now know is that fun and innocent little story has great meaning when applying it to life and especially in raising children.

In “The Pursuit of Happiness” there is a point where Will Smith tells his son never to let someone tell him that he cannot do something or accomplish something (my paraphrasing there, sorry if I did not get the quote exactly right). Little tidbits of advice and guidance like this go a long way in shaping the confidence of your children, it also teaches them that in order to achieve / obtain certain things that you have to work really hard at them. I know that it seems trivial and common sense, but it is amazing at how powerful these little lessons can be.

So the next time that you are feeling like you are ready to throw in the towel, remember back to your childhood and the story of The Little Train that Could and keep chugging away, you will eventually cross that mountaintop.